These are what we must
have for building great relationship between parents and children:
1.
Good
Communication
Communication is the most important thing
to manage. Parents should communicate well with their children. Parents should
share the vision and mission of the family. In the other hand, children should
also be opened to their parents about their dreams, problems and everything
related to them. The good communication between parents and children will
create harmony and avoid clash in the family.
2.
Good
Time Management
Father and mother can also be a friend of their
children, but the chance to be their friend, is sometimes less because both
children and parents have their own busy life. Parents are busy with their work
while the kids are busy with the affairs and their friends. In fact, a lot of
parents are concerned on jobs, so they neglect their children. Things like this
should be avoided, because lack of communication is the most important factor
causing disharmony between children and parents. So, take the time to gather
together; share stories and experiences; share feelings; and others, it is
important to be done. We must realize, children definitely need parental
discourse, therefore communication between parents and children is very
important to do. Don’t always be busy of working! Parents should allocate
enough time to gather together with their children.
3.
Mutual
Understanding
Sometimes, children have different ideas
with parents. But. This should not be potential clash in the family. It can be
the resources, brilliant ideas that can lead to the great ideas. Both parents
and children should understand each other and find win-win solution. Not only
will it resolve the problem but also create harmony in life.
4.
Mutual
Respect
The key to achieve good communication is
respect. Every single actor who communicate should respect each other.
Therefore, it will build the understanding among them. It is impossible to
create good communication without understanding.
This does not include all
the tips. You may add your own.
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